I found this on my fellow grant student’s blog Asri who is living and studying an Albany, New York State. For me, what she wrote is represent what women want and how women would like to be treated by their lovers. Guys…you better read this, good job Asri…
With you I don’t have to be smart
With you I don’t have to be pretty all the time
With you I can wear my old shirt
And you always say that I look fine
With you I can be sick
With you I can be healthy
With you I can laugh
With you I can cry like a baby
With you I can be a woman
With you I can be a girl
With you I can be a child
And whatever I become, you smile at me
With you I don’t have to be fragrant
With you I don’t have to be that neat girl with manicured nails
With you I can put on any make up on my face
With you I can let my face bare
With you I can look pretty
With you I can look messy
With you I can have my cute hairdo
With you I can look bushy
And still, you look at me with admiration
With you I may act a foolish
With you I am welcome to be smarter
With you I can be weak
With you I feel strong
With you I can be the most realistic
With you I may become a dreamer
With you I can talk
With you I can meditate
With you I can wish
With you I can pray
With you I can dance
With you I can sing
With you I can find good books
With you it’s easy to grab the good carrots 
With you I can cook
With you I can shop
With you I can be the laziest person possible in the planet
With you, I can do everything
With you I share the days by the oceans
With you I climb the mountains
With you I travel,
With you I fly
Holding your hands, watching the clouds from above
With you I watch the stars
With you I watch the full moon
With you I watch the sunrise
By your side, mostly, I watch the sunsets
With you I can be vulnerable
With you I am sheltered
With you I can be broken
With you, you mend my shattered pieces into one
With you I am a princess
With you I am a queen
With you I am precious
With you I am me
With you I can fail
With you I can shine
With you I can fall,
But always, you hold me to rise again
With you I believe,
With you I trust
With you I discover
With you I learn
With you I pray
With you I can live in perfection
With you I can be imperfect
With you I can be me
And you love me still, UNCONDITIONALLY…
